Oh, there are dozens of books telling you to honor the Gods and Goddesses this way or that. And some are very good reads ! But as one person I know says, " most of it is just conversation." If you love the Gods, I mean truly love the Gods, let them lead you down the path that they want you to follow. It can be a fun trip !
Read everything and anything you can get your hands on and then follow what is in your heart, because this is what the Gods want. Be independent ! Be yourself ! Do what I do and incorporate a little of what feels right from each until it matches your vision of how to honor the Gods. Remember, it is you who are speaking to the ancient Gods and Goddesses, not the authors of these books.
As a small example, one of my new e-mail friends likes to " wing it " when she performs a rite. I prefer to write my own rites and prepare diligently, because I do not perform well on " the fly". I do not feel that stuttering and searching for words works well for me, but it works just fine for her.
You may have noticed that I am not giving specifics on how to honor the Gods and Goddesses. That is because part of the joy of our religion is discovering through learning, and trial and error, what works for you and what doesn' t. And when you get it just the way you want it , it is incredible ! You will have made a real connection with the ancient Gods and Goddesses and they will love you in return for your effort.
Remember, if you are a lone practitioner, then you are truly an Independent Asatruar. Listen only to your heart, it will take you where you need to go !
Go with Odin' s wisdom, Freyja' s love and Thor' s protection !