I realize that some in our religion tend to choose from the almost fifty Gods and Goddesses who they will honor specifically, and that is fine, as long as they understand that the role of the women of Asgard and Vanaheim in our religion, is not a secondary, or trivial one. These female Goddesses are strong and independent women who stand on their own and deserve the same praise as the male Gods. Some of this unbalance is caused, I believe, by the stories in the Eddas that tend to be mostly about the male Gods. Let us not forget, however, that these Eddas were written by men at a time when the roles of women were minimized.
When I look at the women who are written about in the Eddas, and the Sagas for that matter, I see some very strong women indeed. First, and foremost, is Skadhi, the great huntress. Anybody want to mess with her ! Even the Gods of Asgard didn' t want to have to fight her, and had so much respect for her bravery that they allowed her to choose an Asgardian for a husband ! Gullveig is another very strong woman that the Eddas tell us about. Odin tried three times to kill her and burn her body, but three times she was reborn. Freyja, is a Goddess I am very familiar with indeed, and I have had much contact with her over the years. Freyja's magic makes her one of the most powerful of all the Gods and Goddesses. Remember it was Vanir magic that defeated the Aesir in the great war. Var, the Goddess of compacts and vows, is said to take vengeance on all those who break their oaths. Syn guards the great door to the hall, and only allows those to enter who have permission. Hlin protects those men who Frigga wants safe - guarded from harm, and of course we have the Valkyries, who fly over the battlefields picking up the dead to bring back to Valhalla. Even the Goddesses who are not warrior types, like Eir and Idunn, have extremely important roles within the Asgardian society. Look at how fast the Gods went to rescue Idunn when she was kidnapped by the Giant. How can we see these as anything but strong and independent women who deserve just as much praise, honor, and respect as the male Gods.
If you want to choose specific Gods and / or Goddesses that is fine, but we must still honor and respect the female Goddesses as well. To ignore them is the same as dishonoring them. I actually have a ritual for each and every deity in our Asatru pantheon, because I am constantly worried that I will forget one of them. I have a calendar on my wall above my main altar with their names written on each of the days. Some I have to double up, especially in February, but I don't miss any of them. I even go so far as to alternate every other day between the Gods and Goddesses. Yes, I have that much love and respect for ALL the Gods and Goddesses.......as should we all !
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